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Dig Down, Dig In + Build Up

Complete coaching for women who want to sort through the struggle.

Call it stuck, call it frustrated, call it in your own way – it doesn’t really matter what words you use, it only matters that you’re feeling the struggle.

(And goodness knows I’ve felt it too.)

It’s the worst to feel like you almost really want the life you have — but you’re not sure how to bridge the gap between almost and actuality.

Or worse, maybe you’re not even sure what that life even looks like (or what you want to be when you grow up).

Either way, there’s something you can’t quite put your finger on.

Some part of this big, beautiful life of yours isn’t firing on all cylinders.

And when you can’t pinpoint what’s breaking down, spinning your wheels can make you feel like giving up completely.

Rather than giving up, give yourself the go-ahead to build a life by your rules.

In fact, together we’re going to figure out what those “rules” even look like for you. (To be honest, they’re more like really effective guidelines.)

My specialty is working as your partner, to ask all the right, pertinent questions to fill in the blanks and shine a light into the dark corners you may not be looking in. Together, we identify exactly what the issue is, what’s really holding you back, and how to move forward.

No matter where you’re at with life and job stuff, we’ll figure out why things feel so hard and make the future so much simpler.

See How We’ll Work Best


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One-on-One Coaching: A virtual process of excavating your old foundation and building a stronger one. Coaching ranges from one call to a six-month partnership. Learn more.



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Speaking Engagements: Not just another boring speech, but a sharing of ideas, with an entirely new energy. Learn more.



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Tools: Downloadable goodness to give you an on-your-own jumpstart. Learn more.



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The Get it Sorted Session: Spend a day gaining clarity and direction, motivation and next steps. Learn more.



But is this for me?

If you’re here, it likely is. Listen, I work with a lot of women, and a lot of women all across the board – from age 25 to 55, working, stay-at-home mom, single, coupled, totally independent, part of a close-knit family, gay, straight, fit, not-fit, well-off, on a budget. My clients don’t fit a specific niche or demographic, and frankly, I like it that way.

There’s not always a common goal, but there is always a common thread. Every woman I work with is thinking to herself something along the lines of:

“What’s keeping me so stuck?”

“Isn’t there another way?”

“I just want to find some clarity and direction.”

“Why can’t I do this on my own?”

Let me give you a few examples:

The career-focused woman. She loves her work. Period. It’s not that work is life, but it is, indeed, a huge part of her identity. Her professional impact and legacy are important to her, and that’s exactly why she’s seeking a coach. She knows the meaning and benefit of support to level up.

The career questioner or transitioner. She’s focused on her career, it’s important to her, but it’s also not quite right – yet. She’s feeling the tug to do something different, something more, or maybe, she’s ready to transition to an entirely different professional situation. She’s got lots of questions, and she’s finally ready to answer them.

The mom prioritizing and exploring self. She’s a mom – and a damn great one at that, but that’s not all she is. Her identity is no longer completely wrapped up in her kids and family, and she’s finally ready to make time for herself, to explore who she is right now and what other parts of her life need attention for fulfillment.

The high-performer with a lag. She’s happy, no doubt. Life is good. It’s just that there’s something she can’t put her finger on that would make it even better. She thought it was one thing, but turns out – it’s not. She’s probably in her head a lot. She’s read the books, she’s taken the courses, she’s following all the right people, but she’s still not finding the solution. She’s ready to admit she needs help, and is ready to go deeper.

The doesn’t-quite-fit. She doesn’t quite fit into any of the above. She might work, she might not. She might be a mom, she might not. She might be young, old. She might be in relationship, or not. All she knows is she’s searching for a home.

So is this for you? Yep. Probably. If you want to talk about it some more, I’m all in. Let’s find a time to chat and answer all your burning questions.

Coaching can be daunting, so let’s ditch the pomp + circumstance and just focus on connecting.

Book your (completely free) call to see how this feels in your guts.

Let’s have genuine conversations in your inbox. Simple as that.